Exotic Lifestyle Retreats
The last week of June every year we host a week long retreat in Jamaica focused on WOMEN & THOSE WHO ADORE THEM. Relationship status is not important for your attendance. Everyone is welcome, single, married or entangled adults! You will all experience a deeper connection to yourself, make some of your new best friends for life, and bask in this exotic Caribbean resort with Exotic Lifestyle Retreats. Find out more here…
Our guests and hosts are always excited to share their experiences with others – this is natural for us to want others to have what we are having that is amazing!
INTRODUCING OUR CORE ELR TEAM
Dr. Nancy & Cameo Kyle
What started as a friendship, followed by adding a business partnership, has since became family.
“Launching ELR (Exotic Lifestyle Retreats) in 2015 with Cameo as my partner and entertainment director was one of my finer decisions in life. We are a great balance of spice and calm – seriousness and playfulness and we have a great love and respect for each other that carries us through. In fact, we think so much of each other, Cameo and his wife Julianna asked me to officiate their wedding in 2019.” Dr. Nancy
Cameo and Juju are the owners and managers of City of Doms, a traveling exotic entertainment troupe that serves the female LGBTQ+ audiences throughout the USA & internationally.
The Three Amigas!
Kisha, Dr. Nancy & Linda
“These two have been by my side since 2010 at nearly every ELR event plus we have traveled together as BFFs many times just for fun!
I could not have made it through all the challenges I’ve faced creating events in other countries without these two.
They are the hub of ELR and compassionately empowering women is a shared passion of ours. They are also great advocates for men who desire to learn, grow and evolve as men in a changing world.” – Dr. Nancy,
Frank (Krave) Lightfoot
Frank has been a huge part of ELR even before we were ELR! Always the first one to arrive – he is the utmost southern gentleman, gracious, kind, funny and overflowing with genuine enthusiasm for being a part of this team.
We missed him last retreat (2019) due to his obligation with US Army reserve that he as been in 18 years. Frank has been deployed twice to Iraq and Afghanistan.
We are all thrilled to have Frank back with us in 2021 and he WILL bring the extra energy we are all Kraving from him!
This is going to he one hellofa ELR Reunion!!!
“We build more than just mental confidence, we build physical confidence during ELR”. Frank Krave Lightfoot
“Wanted” International Entertainer
Wanted has been traveling with ELR since 2015 and has not missed an event since. He is an array of talents – from laughter instigator, photographer, exotic entertainer, loyal friend, to devoted father. Jason served in the United States Marine Corp for 11 years and is currently enrolled in college working on his degree in business admin. He brings so much to the group and we can’t imagine an ELR without him!
Wanted loves to laugh, and is fair, firm and lover of everyone.
“ELR is a place where men can learn about themselves in a way that will free them to be better men.” JT
Jihad (Apollo) Glover
Apollo joined us the first time in 2014. He descended with an abundance of energy that was tough to match! Always full of surprises, besides those locks of his, his voice is sure to bring women to the soul of themselves in seconds.
Apollo has not missed an opportunity to be a part of ELR and here is why…
“I am a ladies man and discovered I had a lot more to learn about communication. The Oasis has given me new tools to understand how to touch, talk, listen and be with women in new ways.” – Apollo Glover
What I look most forward to each and every year is;
- Witnessing other people’s awakening experiences.
- Hearing people really find their own authentic voice in just one week
- And having another opportunity to grow personally as a man.
ELR really prepares us for the ELR and Hedonism experience!
Blackjezus
Blackjezus first joined me in 2012 as a photography assistant for my Erotic Film Festival, Erotikos, in Jamaica.
Ever since then, he has been joining my retreats as an entertainer, host, organizer, teacher, and genuine believer in what we create for women and those who adore them.
Blackjezus also manages a Caribbean Exotic Entertainment troupe (sadly this has been paused during the pandemic). We are thrilled to have him joining us for our big 2021 reunion this coming June!
Juliana (Juju) & Cameo Kyle
Cameo is a well-known New York promoter who has thrown some of the hottest parties throughout the last 15 years.
Juju’s background in social work is a bonus of insight for the delicate nature of our programming. She oozes confident sex energy setting a tone for a very exotic collaboration.
The Power Couple
I have had the privilege of being a witness to their love story from the start. They are so perfectly suited for each other. These two bring out the best in each other – and everyone in their presence.
As co-captains of team ELR, they each bring an equal part to creating a successful experience for our guests and team.
The team of hosts, entertainers, artists, photographers, etc are an integral part of the full ELR expereince. Everyone leaves a bit more connected to themselves and each other.
Ronne Carlton
Ronne has been traveling with ELR since the start as a guest, sponsor, and now a part of the entertainment/party planning team!
Her calm spirit is always a welcome addition to this wild bunch and she brings a unique and caring perspective to every aspect of our itinerary.
Ronne is someone I admire greatly and she has been a strong force in my life as a teacher and friend. Her patience and raw honesty are at the top of my list of qualities I admire about her – and her beautiful spirit is impossible not to love.
You can find her here and get some of her hints for greater sex energy yourself! Bedroom Kandi Consultant
Juliana (Juju)
Prior to coming to my first ELR trip, like most women, I was very self-conscious about my body…. I also worried if I would have a good time vacationing with a bunch of strangers…..Boy oh boy, was I in for a surprised!!
Dr. Nan and the rest of the team made me feel so comfortable and I had a blast…From morning circle where we learned so much from Dr. Nan to the entertainment team that kept the party going day and night…my vacation was unforgettable!
I learned to love myself even with all my imperfections and I truly awakened my inner goddess!
I learned so much about myself, the person I want to be, and how I want to be treated.
It truly was an awakening experience!!!
Now as I go into my sixth trip with ELR, I am more than excited to share my experience with our guests and make them feel as welcome, as beautiful, and as confident as ever!
– Juliana
