What is a Sexologist and what do they do?
Q: What do Clinical Sexologists (Sex Doctor) do?
Clinical Sexologists: Experts in Human Sexuality
A Clinical Sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality differs from Sex Educators and Sex Therapists in several key ways:
Holds an advanced Doctoral degree (Ph.D. or DHS) in Human Sexuality Studies.
Focuses on research, education, and counseling related to sexual, intimacy & interpersonal relationship challenges.
Provides comprehensive understanding of human sexuality from biological, psychological, and sociocultural perspectives.
Focuses primarily on providing sexual education and information.
May work in various settings like schools, community organizations, or healthcare facilities.
Licensed mental health professional with specialized training in sex therapy.
Addresses psychological aspects of sexual issues and dysfunctions.
Typically holds a degree in psychology, social work, or counseling.
The unique value of a Clinical Sexologist lies in their ability to combine:
In-depth knowledge of human sexuality
Counseling skills
Comprehensive sex education
Health education
This multifaceted approach allows Clinical Sexologists to address a wide range of sexual concerns and promote overall sexual well-being. They often collaborate with other mental health professionals, such as psychotherapists or marriage and family therapists, to provide complementary expertise and ensure comprehensive care for clients
Click HERE to learn more about a Clinical Sex Doctor’s areas of study.
The most commonly asked questions of a Sex Doctor
“What’s causing the difference in sexual desire between my partner and me?”
“How can I improve communication about sex with my partner?”
“Is my sexual function being affected by any medical conditions or medications?”
“How can I address difficulties with arousal or achieving orgasm?”
“What can I do about pain during intercourse?”
“How do I overcome past sexual traumas or negative experiences?”
“Can you help me understand and explore my sexual identity or orientation?”
“How can I improve my sexual confidence and body image?”
“What strategies can help me manage sexual side effects of medications or health conditions?”
“How can we rebuild intimacy in our relationship?”
Who are my clients?
My diverse clientele includes:
Seeking to rekindle romance and intimacy
Exploring new relationship designs or agreements
Engaged couples preparing for marriage
Developing communication skills for partnership
Questioning sexual orientation
Single adults working on:
Confidence building
Communication techniques
Improving partner selection (“picker” problems)
Identifying helpful and harmful relationship patterns
Seeking tools to raise sexually healthy children
Empowerment and sexual health
Finding their voice and inner power
Exploring sexual energy and pleasure
Developing skills for relationships with empowered women
I refer clients considering gender reassignment to specialized therapists in that field.
My approach combines decades of experience in healthcare, education, counseling, and yoga therapy to provide comprehensive support for sexual and relational well-being.
What happens in a session?
All sessions are conducted via Zoom. Upon scheduling your appointment, you will receive an email with the Zoom link and passcode.
During the session:
We will engage in a conversation where I will ask what brings you to see me today.
I will inquire about your priorities to better understand your needs, taking notes and listening for key themes.
Together, we will create a priority list to focus on during our time together.
I often assign homework or “homeplay” to reinforce our discussions and facilitate growth.
My primary goal is to help you identify areas where you feel stuck and provide tools that promote expansion, education, and personal growth.
I prioritize ensuring that each individual feels heard, seen, loved, and safe throughout the process.
Additionally, with my medical background, I may identify the need for referrals to medical doctors or suggest specific lab tests if hormone imbalances are suspected. I am also comfortable recommending medication adjustments or psychotherapy when necessary. I believe in a collaborative healthcare approach that involves teamwork for optimal support.
How often do you see clients?
The frequency of sessions is entirely up to you, the client. My practice is client-centered, allowing for flexibility based on your needs and preferences.
: Some clients prefer to dive right in and schedule weekly sessions to maintain momentum and focus on their goals.
: Others may feel comfortable with just one session or choose to meet less frequently as they progress.
I also provide assignments to support your growth between sessions and offer occasional email support when needed.
We do not provide emergency crisis counseling. If you find yourself in crisis, please contact your local mental health hotline immediately for assistance. Your safety and well-being are of utmost importance.
What are the most common reasons to meet with a Sexologist?
- Desire for a safe space to talk about sex and how it affects your life happiness.
Comprehensive, unbiased, pleasure and consent based sex education.
Desire discrepancies or mismatched libidos in couples.
Erectile dysfunction and other sexual dysfunctions.
Processing past sexual trauma or abuse.
Questions regarding sexual identity or orientation.
Communication issues surrounding sexual desires and preferences.
Difficulties with orgasm or arousal.
Sexual confidence issues and body image concerns.
Pain during intercourse (dyspareunia or vaginismus)
Exploring and enhancing intimacy in relationships.
Addressing the impact of mental health issues (such as depression or anxiety) on sexual function
Sexual guilt, shame & functional challenges related to early childhood messaging.
What to expect in our sessions.
Our sessions are designed to be a safe, professional space for open discussion and guidance. To ensure clarity and comfort:
Our conversations will be clothed and verbal.
We focus on education, counseling, and strategies – no physical demonstrations.
Physical examinations are not part of our sessions.
While I don’t prescribe medications or order labs, I can suggest topics to discuss with your physician if relevant.
Our sessions are about you – I maintain professional boundaries and keep the focus on your needs.
Your privacy is paramount – all information shared is strictly confidential unless you provide explicit consent.
These boundaries allow us to create a trusting, respectful environment where you can freely express yourself and work towards your goals. My role is to provide expert guidance, support, and resources to help you on your journey to sexual well-being.
Payment Information
Payment is required at the time of booking to secure your appointment. We offer several convenient payment options, detailed on our [Payment Options Page].
To support accessibility, we offer a hardship sliding scale from $88 to $128 per session. If you wish to utilize this option:
Visit the [Book Appointment Page].
Scroll to the bottom of that page to find the Hardship Scholarship Application.
Follow the instructions to make your payment at the time of booking.
We operate on a trust-based system for the hardship scale and ask that you select a fair amount based on your financial situation.
Thank you for your honesty and integrity.
What are your practice terms and conditions?
Here you will find everything you need regarding scheduling an appointment with Dr. Nancy, including our cancelation policy, payment links, sliding scale options, and more.
HERE is your fillable Practice Agreement form and once you are finished it will automatically be sent to Dr. Nancy’s administrative assistant, Keith.